After delivery, the mother is not just a flood of gifts. Flood advice was facing! Of reasonable care advice to advice that is based only myth and not fact or reality.
Advice 1: Mothers should be versatile. Not a good mother if admitted, the mother underwent difficult. Ideally, it should be the mother of patience, compassion and understanding. But being a mother is a process and you do not want to fail at the first opportunity to be a mother. Every mother needs a chance to learn and be aware of its role gradually. So it is not right if someone says to you, you have to be perfect and ready for the role of the mother without complaint coming home from the hospital. Start by admitting to yourself: "I can not wait to face cry baby". Or, what do you consider to be the challenges of new motherhood. From there, do something to learn to be more patient, or "thick" cry baby face ear. If it is difficult to overcome alone, get help!
Advice 2: Breastfeeding is very easy and can be controlled naturally all new mothers. Confused why breast milk has not come out well after giving birth ?! It will be the first time out is a clear yellow liquid called kolostrium. There is a series of processes that must be passed in order to smoothly and more milk production. Includes face the pain when they first smoked baby milk from the nipple. And continue to breastfeed your baby from day one. For a more concrete learning process, prenatal breastfeeding buy themed video first. Then the "program" that in your head, whatever you feel is also felt by the baby. You definitely want your baby warm happy feeling from your breast milk. So enjoy and smile!
Advice 3: fellow new mother will be your best friend. As you, other new mothers also do not want to be labeled incompetent parents. So when you meet a fellow new mom, new moms to each other to cover the shortfall and will not admit the difficulties he faced. It appeared like a competition. Accept the fact that fellow new mother does not want to "disturbed" about their ability to live the role of a mother. So ... ignore compare your baby with other babies. Mengobrollah about things light and entertaining.
Advice 4: You can get all the answers from the experts.
If you do not know the proper way to treat colic a new baby, immediately contact a pediatrician. But it was you who know the right moment to contact your doctor. Of course you are not going to rush phone just because the baby spit up. Bottom line, use the ability to "read" the situation. Quite often, your warm hug and gaze alone can "cure" a baby crying. Find information and biological experience for experience sake. If your intuition a moment missed, no problem too. Over time, you will surely be able to "lock" the right way of reading reality.
Advice 5: All the mother could take care of her own baby
Paskakelahiran you are supposed to rest, and "get acquainted" with baby through the ritual of getting up at night, breastfeeding, sleep and wake up again. Just accept it and be patient. You certainly do not need to hesitate to ask for help dad, grandma or nanny, because you definitely need to eat, and a short break .. a little beautification.
Advice 6: Bonding develop naturally
Not all mothers "unconscious" emotion relationship should be built. Although the 9 months of your baby in the womb, but the closeness and attachment should continue to be nurtured. Take advantage of the moment babymoon. The first month with your baby is an important time of your introduction to the baby. While you employ a nanny, let him take the little things that are less important, such as baby wash equipment. Affairs lull baby is "quota" you.
7 Advice: Having sex with your husband feels the same way again
Admit it, you are tired and tired after giving birth. Not only because the body feels as exhausted "machine down" but the ritual of waking up several times a night surely surprise you in weeks. Boro-boro thought of intercourse with her husband, can sleep calm one hour alone is great! No need to rush dismiss solicitation husband! Begin to talk with your husband. Shhh ... the research says sebuat warm small talk can be a great foreplay.
Advice 8: The body of a mother who has given birth is a common
Right! Your breasts are now belong to your baby as well. Set eat and drink now must consider the needs of your baby being breastfed. You missed your body first? Patience .. yes. Currently you can only take advantage of the body for the purpose of "you" that is consistent with the interests of the baby. During exercise you do to help increase milk production, may, of course you do. As far as the spa or scrubs can pamper and relax you after delivery, until finally exploding milk production ... do it!
Advice 9: Uninstall hobby and enjoyment! Children are everything
One month until the first 40 days with the baby, you may still need to learn and a lot of stay at home. Especially if it will work again, you have to keep an eye on the caregiver and regulate delegation of infant care. But in the ensuing months, you have to breathe fresh air! In any case you need to escape for a moment from the routine. This does not mean you are cruel mother. Make an appointment lunch with a fellow mother, while the child was dropped off to the husband or nanny or grandmother were delegated to assist you. Enjoy laughter and jokes for a while, then come back with a fresh mind and a joyful heart.
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