Pregnancy: The Prospective Mother Stage Fright

Know much about pregnancy even invite stress. Especially if you like to compare themselves with others 

Saturday morning in the gym pregnant, when midwives were discussing baby massage through the video, a mother hastily raised his hand. He said, "Massage the abdomen, hand gestures form I-love-you." 

Greeting mother was greeted with a look of jealousy, "Uh, show off their knowledge," muttered the other participants. 

As a result of anxiety, find a lot of info. Those who were first pregnant obviously happy. Segunung their curiosity towards self-change and development of the fetus. But at the same time, it grows well in a future mother's anxiety. Even for those who are pregnant the second, third and so on. This is normal, especially if you have experienced less fun in a previous pregnancy. 

Anxiety, worry erratic encourage mothers looking for as much info from many sources: magazines, books pregnancy, the internet. It also participated in various seminars pregnancy, swimming classes, yoga and spa and beauty treatments for pregnant women. Of course it's all good. 

Knowledge alone is not enough. Unfortunately, considerable knowledge even booming, it makes mothers become more anxious and overly concerned. On the other hand, mothers often appear to be information-rich "smart and super mom". This kind of mother seem ostentatious pregnancy pregnancy exercise room, in the office or in the doctor's waiting room. Another mother who was anxious and less so the less confident the info .... 

Questions such as "Is it normal my pregnancy?", "It sempurnakah me as a mother?" Or "What can I give birth to normal?" And so on, shadowing every mother who is expecting the birth of her baby. Answers can be immediately obtained, but does not necessarily make the heart calm. 

External factors. In addition to the self, environmental factors can also be a deciding factor. Comment parents, in-laws, in-laws, neighbors and friends can boost the degree of intelligence the prospective mother. Comments like, "It's been 25 weeks, anyway, your stomach is still small?" Or "Oh, you are very thin, poor little one!". Comments like this would not have been taken seriously and continuously 

Enjoy and happy. Not only cravings, "stage fright" as a result of the new role that will be carried also create competition going on between the prospective father. Due worried and exited! 

According to research published in the journal Hormones and Behavior, there are several causes that anxiety. Among other things, great care in caring dad and raising a child, though the child has not been born. This finding is of course good news. 

For those of you who are experiencing euphoria as mothers and fathers, welcome to the new world. For those of you who are inferior because the comments "tilt" of the environment, not to upset. Add your knowledge or ask the experts. Of the pregnancy should be enjoyed with a positive feeling, a sense of confidence and calm. If anyone banish your composure, do not be upset. Face it with a calm and cool head.